Sexting The Poll

Sexting The Poll

Sexting The Poll

*Snicker…. Poll …….sex ting ……. yea I crack myself up…. anyway let me just dive right into this piece of madness and how this particular post came about. Yesterday I was having a conversation with a friend about keeping the sizzle in your situation, the flirtation in your fantasy basically, trying to understand why some women have such a hard time sending their man or special someone if he doesn’t have the man title quite yet a little sexy pic. Now it doesn’t have to be gynecologist style buss it wide open, I think that’s the womb I can see photo, but even something subtle like puckered/kissy lips, a peeping areola on a cleavage shot, nip “slip” whale tail, cupped coochie etc. Basically just something sent randomly to convey “Hey I’m thinking about you right now and I’m possibly getting moist from these thoughts, can’t wait to see you or whatever women think when sending the sexy shots.
Now over the years I had my fair share of pics sent to me via email, mms, instant messenger etc, some from ladies I was seeing either exclusively or randomly, some requested or some just by saying hello, even some from just cool ass chics sharing that good good stuff, but at the end of the day all appreciated. I mean what man would not appreciate looking at some lips, chesticles, ass and pumpum. Actually stay tuned I’ll come back to this. So today as I’m hanging on the old book of face, I’m reading this very angry post from a female who went into her man’s phone (privacy violation) and found faceless punani/tatas shots in all kinda various poses and she wants to know if she should question him or just end the relationship, one reply asked if she ever sent “her man” a similar pic, to which she replied “I’m NOT A HOE”. It was at this point I just chuckle to myself and decided to run a little poll, with the following question:-

Should it be mandatory or at least “the thing to do” for a lady to send her dude or dude she’s feeling/getting to know the odd sexy pic just as a reminder every now and then?

Simple question right? well here are some of the answers I received…… ladies I thank you all

I think it is acceptable, if he’s appreciative

I guess it depends on the couple. If she is comfortable doing that and he reciprocated then it’s all good I guess.

It should be the thing to do, it’s what I do

I might send a boob in my bra but that’s it. Too much technology to be sexting these days. 😂

Lol. Yes she should be obligated to do so. But only if her actions are reciprocated. It doesn’t necessarily have to be dick pics it can be in imprints and innuendos

Not mandatory but it will keep things spicy. But he has to also, a dick picture is good for the soul also

Nah. Not every woman is about that life. And if her man knows and loves her he’d know what to expect from her. Which is reason why she shouldn’t send it to the guy she’s just feeling unless…she’s about that life

I don’t think anything is mandatory. And why is it the woman’s responsibility to send pics, why not the guy? Also I think it depends on what type of rules have been established. I don’t want someone just sending me all manner of pics just for the hell of it. I’d rather have a convo – I can see what you look like then. Plus, what if one person’s sexy isn’t the other person’s sexy? We’ve all had that happen. And I think it sometimes sets the woman up to feel like the only way the guy is gonna stay interested is if she’s half-naked – unless that’s the type of relationship she/they want, in which case, go for it.

It shouldn’t be, if she wants to that’s on her, but a sexy pic ain’t enough

I don’t know about mandatory, but I can see how it helps, but everyone’s definition of “sexy” isn’t the same

well one thing about this poll I noticed the ladies sure do hate the word mandatory, I purposely used that language because of womanese logic, I knew that would draw immediate reaction and slight defense almost automatically, what can I say I’m a bit of an asshole I know how to poke the bear. But anyway so I guess it can be said from this poll, some women are open to the idea of sharing a flirtatious moment with their guy or even go as far as a faceless all out nasty pic. Now whether it be a ego boost, little self-esteem builder or just a “you already know I’m hot” I applaud it. Personally if in the middle of the day I randomly get a pic of a sexy panty clad booty jaw with a caption like “when you gonna come smack this” I know for a fact it would keep me focused then and there on the prize. Now this is not to say I need it in my life or I need it to stay focused on the chic I’m seeing. but most dudes I know don’t want a boring dead fish that can’t get her nasty on every now an then.
Well that’s what I thought at least,,,,,,,, I had a conversation with a grown man who said he wants his lady doing none of that thot shit, his words were bizarre to me, I don’t think a man should have this level of insecurity, but the times the times are changing, so naturally I asked for an explanation. He said due to his past experiences he prefers his ladies, especially the ones he makes “wifey” to not do such things and he even went as far as to say, not even indulge in certain sex acts. I didn’t ask for details on that. I just shared the wisdom an old school kat once told me.