A Good Woman

A Good Woman

A Good Woman

I’ve always heard the expression, a good woman is hard to find, no it’s not, well it didn’t use to be at one time. But nowadays Fellas, fellas feeeeeeellllllaaaaaas, if you ever meet a woman spewing these very words… RUN!! Of course every case is debatable, for example if it’s said in jest, give it a pass. If it is delivered with mucho gusto and serious enthusiasm, either following or proceeding the new mantra

I know my worth!!!

Believe you me my brothers from different mothers, RUN!! Here’s the reason why I say run, see regardless of how fucked up the dating game is in this day and age ( it surely is but that’s a whole other subject ) one thing I know for sure.

A true good woman does not have to verbally advertise that fact

Now this was a different era of course, but I was raised by three main women my Mom, Grandmother and Aunt, plus a whole village of strong women. One thing these women had in common, their deeds showed their true “worth”. There was no grand standing, stupid posturing and idiotic statements made in the name of some feminist new age, let the sistas shout it out crap. They did their daily duties without a care in the world in regards to some showboating on being a “Good Woman”.
I recently participated in a facebook wall debate and one idiotic female had such an issue with something said by someone, who I consider quite intelligent in her way of thinking and presenting herself. The hoopla was over the word “serve”. The statement made was :

I have no problem serving my man a meal

This twit got her no doubt full ass coverage panties in a bunch, asking if the guy in the equation is disabled. I mean cheezus chryst is this really what the world is coming too? A bunch of females so up their own asses that any request of domestic anything is seen as a form of servitude and male domination attempts? I get so sick of these madcap shemutts, so-called freedom fighters against the injustice of male patriarchy. They’re basically blaming it for all the ills in the world from domestic abuse to inequality in pay in the workplace. The irony of their cries when it comes to domestic abuse is not one of these shemutts will say a word when it’s a man who is at the hands of the abuse.
Honestly in this life I have no time for these types of females. I love a strong, proud woman just as much as the next man. But I cannot stand a grand standing, wears her regurgitated education, no original thoughts having ass on her sleeve shemutt, who surrounds herself with equally bitter with life wenches all repeating the same mantra on a daily basis on their forums, groups and plethora of one subject newsletters and email subscriptions. To me it’s the pinnacle of asinine.
My definition of a “good woman” is one who gets the job done, has balance in her life, career and home. Is selfless n her endeavors, appreciates rewards for her hard work, but is not driven by such rewards. None superficial and has her priorities straight, not yearning to be one of these scunts from the housewives of whatever, want to be dining in Buckhead restaurants, but short on bills. Has the ability to appreciate nice things, but not following the trends. When I say to someone, my woman has to be on point with her domestics, cooking cleaning ironing etc, it’s not because I want to be served by this woman all day, hand and foot. At this stage of my life any relationship I enter, and title I bestow on a woman means the relationship has a future, therefore if her domestics are on point, her drive is on point. I can rest easy knowing if I have children with this woman and in the event that anything happens to me, worst case scenario death, she has what it takes to raise our seeds in the right way.
Being a single man has its perks, I can be like southwest airlines, get it? ( Free to move about the country ) But the more conversations I have with both sexes on the subject, as I said earlier the “game” seems to be all the way fucked up. But since I am a man who absolutely Loves LOVE, and despite not believing that monogamy is fully for human beings (another subject for another day) I can still make the right committed choice in a relationship, I stay optimistic that they’re still some quality women out there, that know their worth and know how to be modest, humble and off the grandstand.
Ladies do yourself a favor, especially you black woman, lean back relax and shut the fuck up about it, honestly, just let your deeds do the talking, let your star potential shine all on it’s own, and regardless of what bad experiences you’ve had in the past, whatever man didn’t appreciate your gifts to the world, don’t change who essentially you really are on some game playing is he worthy bullshit. Just shine as a true “good woman”